What Is Your Genital Type And How To Make The Most Of It (For Both Men & Women)

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All right, welcome back to the Love Lab podcast. This is episode 226. And it’s titled, What is your genital type and how to make the most of it. And this is for both men and women. Okay, so this is going to be an interesting show, I really wish somebody was here to share this with me because she had so much experience in this area. Celine did, you know coaching and hands-on bodywork?

For 20 years, I mean, revolving around sexuality. And, you know, she’s a certified sex illogical body worker. And she, over the years had literally seen 1000s of genitals. Fortunately, having been together with her as long as I was, we’ve talked about this many, many, many times over the years, we’ve talked about many of her clients, and I have a pretty darn good download of her experience and why it won’t be the same without her sharing her personal experiences, I think I can do a pretty good job of filling in the types of things that she would add if she were here.

Okay, so in this episode, we are going to cover things like why do we even care about genital types? And then what are the male genital types and what are the female genital types and how do men make the most out of what they got and how do women make the most out of what they’ve got. We’re going to talk about some credenza stuff, we’re going to talk about some stuff from our own work and our own personal observations with past partners with clients, things like that.

So it’s going to be a great episode, I highly suggest that you stay tuned in and again, this is for both men and women. So when I’m talking about describing mens types, women, it would be a really good idea if you paid attention to that also, because you’ll get to know what the different types are. Because if you haven’t had a lot of partners, you might not even realize that there are all these different types.

And when you hear them, you might go, oh, that type would actually that’s exactly what I’ve been looking for. That exists, right. And same thing for the men. And men, I think, probably for you what’s going to be more interesting is knowing that women have different genital types, you’re going to learn like, oh, okay, so if my woman is that I should do this, right? It’s gonna teach you how to work with their genitals in a way that works better for them.

So you’re not just fumbling around in the dark guessing why doesn’t she? All my other partners, when I did this move, they reacted this way. And why doesn’t this woman right? Maybe because her anatomy is a little bit different. So it’s gonna be a fascinating conversation, and we’re just gonna get to talk about genitals for an entire show. So how much fun is that? Okay, before we do that, do you want to join the secret club of men who are great in bed and then check out power and mastery, it’s the most complete sexual mastery training for men.

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So she had some, some really good experience with this material, but this isn’t going to be all about that material. One. I’m not here to teach their class for them. They teach their own classes. You can go look them up, you can find this book online go by it, you can go sign up for their classes, I don’t want to take anything away from what they do. But I do want to talk a little bit about what they talk about when it comes to genital types because it’s relevant.

And then I’m also going to, again, add in our own experience working with a lot of clients and personal experiences with lovers and girlfriends and things and boyfriends, whatever, you know, that her and I had over the years. Okay, so let’s start with, why do we even care about genital types? Like, is this just another way to classify us all and put us in boxes and divide us and do all the usual stuff that society likes to do? Well, no, it is not about that. So while there are no perfect matches out there, there are some matches that are better than others.

In addition, some people are in committed relationships with mismatched genitals. So learning how to make the most of what you’ve got is rather important if you want to have a satisfying sex life. So which brings me to the number two reason you can increase your sexual satisfaction by choosing partners with more compatible genitals or if you’re already with a partner, like, hey, look, this is it, we’re married, we got kids, we’re going to business together, whatever, like we’re not changing partners.

So then how can we find ways to make our genitals more compatible? So that’s, that’s another thing we’re gonna talk about. And, you know, I tried to look this next fact up, because I read it somewhere. And I honestly I couldn’t find it. Between Céline and I, we have read so many books on sexuality, that at this point, trying to remember what information came from what book is nearly impossible. But I remember reading somewhere. And you know, this is probably where she would chime in and go oh, it was in such in such, a way that traditionally, in the past, I don’t know if they still do this, but parents in India when they were doing arranged marriages, and I think maybe they might have even done this in some African tribes, too.

Don’t quote me on that. But because I couldn’t find it when I went to go look it up. But I do know that they would look at the facial features of the two young people that they were thinking about arranging a marriage for, because they believed that those features would indicate things about their genitals. And so they were actually looking for as one of the many criteria in arranging a marriage genital compatibility.

So I wish I could give you the exact information on that one, I tried to look it up before the show. And I just couldn’t find it. I don’t know if I have the wrong search terms. Way too many books to try to go find where that little factoid exists. But I do remember reading that so take it for what it’s worth. In the past, some cultures have actually tried to arrange marriages based on among many other things, the sexual compatibility of their genitals. So those are some reasons why we care about it. Because it can create a more fulfilling sex life.

And as we all know, a more fulfilling sex life can lead to a better relationship overall, it can bring us more satisfaction. And we can learn to work with what we’ve got in the best way possible. Okay. So let’s just jump right in with what are the male Kratos genital types, I’m just going to read like a super quick description. In the book, they go into far more detail. And they talk about all different things from the taste of certain types of men and women to the lubrication of certain types of men and women and depths and lengths. And they go into far more detail. I’m just going to kind of give you the 50,000 foot overview of the different types.

Now, because it is based on some Native American tradition, and they use animals to represent the different types. Sometimes people get bent out of shape. Well, I don’t want to be a pony or I don’t want to be a coyote or whatever. Don’t pay any attention to that, that has nothing to do with it. They just they gotta give it a representation of some sort. So they picked animals that’s somewhat represented the shapes and sizes and differences of human genitals.

So here we go. And they’re not in any particular order. By the way, there’s not like from smallest to largest or anything like that. There. This is just an order. Okay, number one. coyote tends to be short in length and narrow. In girth, these men usually become skilled with their mouths and hands. So a little bit smaller penis type a little shorter and a little narrower. The Pit Bull is longer than the coyote and almost as thick as the bear. So a little bit longer than the coyote not a lot longer and a little bit thicker as well.

The bear is very thick and longer than the pit bowl, or the coyote but shorter than a pony or horse, and also accompanied by smaller, more compact testicles. That’s the thing to have, which I didn’t write down for all of the different types, but they often tend to have certain characteristics with their testicles, so they might be bigger or smaller, closer to the body hang lower, that sort of thing.

All right, next is the pony, which has a large girth longer than a bear, but shorter than a horse. So the pony starting to get longer and thicker, but still not it’s kind of more like the mid-range. Not as long or stick is say somebody like a horse, which is next on the list, which is unusually long, and girth with large and low hanging testicles now, everybody has known somebody that is a horse. Why do I say that?

Because my experience with not all horsemen, but a lot of horsemen, is because their penis is so large, they have to show it to people. I had a friend back in the college days who had a really large penis, he was definitely a horse and at every party at some point in the night, he’d whip his dick out and show it to the ladies. I also had another friend years later, after college, also very large, were at a bar one night him myself and another friend of ours. Next thing I know, I turned around, and he’s whipping his dick out in the bar and showing it to the ladies. It’s like, by the way, ladies, I have a really big penis, don’t believe me? Here you go.

That’s why I say everybody’s known somebody that is a horse because they tend to like to show them off. Interestingly enough, we’ll get into this a little bit further on in the show, but it’s not all that it’s cracked up to be, by any means. In fact, you know, a lot of the women will look at a true horseman and go, Oh, hell no. We’ll talk about that more later. Next is the elk longer than a deer but less thick than a horse often tilting left or right not always tilting left or right. But sometimes the elk is kind of that. Again, it’s more of a middle ground. It’s not super long, but not super short. It’s kind of in that what most women would describe is that just right Goldilocks zone in length and girth.

The Deer are long and narrow and often tapered at the end with low-hanging testicles. So the deer tends to be pretty long and narrow. We have the RAM narrow like a deer but shorter and often projects upwards. And then we have the dancing man which is average-sized with tapered heads. They claim that the dancing is most common. I would have to ask Céline that question. I don’t really know the answer to that. I can tell you though, that some of like the outliers on both ends, like the coyotes and the pitbulls, and the horses and even the deers tend to be less common, you will probably see more like Dancing Men, ponies.

Elks kind of thing, more in that mid-range, and probably be a bit more common. So that’s just like a brief description of how the system of Dosco would describe men’s genitals and the differences between them. So, okay, why again, why is this important? Well, think about it. Let’s say you’re a coyote man, and you have a shorter penis and a narrower penis. Well, that’s not going to work for some women. It’ll work for some, but it may not work for others, right? So you got to figure out okay, if I am that man, one, should I be with a woman who doesn’t work with? Well, not if you can avoid it, but maybe you’ve already established a relationship.

Okay, great. Well, then what else can you do? And that’s a big part of what we’re going to be talking about closer towards the end of the show. So, you have an idea here from the descriptions of some of the different types. I would like to add now. Other quote unquote, types or considerations and you know, kudos good does actually mention some of of the things that I’m going to talk about here in conjunction with what I read above, but not all of it. Some of this really just comes from our own experience working with a lot of different clients. So what are some of the other types or things that you would want to be aware of? Okay, number one on this list is the angle that the penis points.

Now Céline had told me and she believed me, she’s she saw a lot of penises in the 20 years that she did coaching work around sexuality. And she would say that most men, either angle to the left or to the right, like on average, most men angle one way or the other. Which is interesting, I wouldn’t have known that myself, I wouldn’t have guessed that. But that is what she said. In fact, we even were talking about this not that long ago, which is why it’s kind of fresh in my memory. So let’s think about things like this. What do you have going on as a woman? What is going on inside your vagina? Right? So do you have sensitivities on one side of your vaginal wall or the other?

Do you maybe have, you know, some scarring from procedures that you’ve had, or childbirth or things like that, where, you know, a penis that angles in a certain way hits a spot that’s not that good, or the opposite might be true, where you have a spot that just like, like, a lot of people have heard of the G spot, a lot of people don’t know that there are other spots as well like the P spot and there are other spots. They are areas inside the vagina, that have often higher concentrations of nerve endings and are extremely pleasurable to touch with your penis.

And so, you might want to think about hey, if if I if you know, as a woman, or as a man, if you know your woman really likes a certain spot to be touched or pressed on, or rubbed against. And you know that your penis happens to fit and reach that spot. One, great. And if not, if you know that your penis doesn’t, then you go, Okay, well, I will find other ways to stimulate that spot, because that’s what she likes. So angle of your direction that the penis points now, I can tell you this also from saline, because she told me this many times. Her favorite, and this is just her favorite. And every woman has a different thing that they like based on their own genital types, and you know, their spots and all that salines favorite was a penis that pointed up.

And, you know, we tend to think of when a man gets an erection, it goes up. But that’s not true for all men, some go up, some just go kind of straight out, some go straight out and off to one side or the other. Apparently, according to Céline, men whose penises with an erection point straight up are actually somewhat rare. But for her, it was the type that just worked for her. So something to consider is, what angle or direction does your penis point when it’s erect? And as a woman? You know, think about it. What style do you like? What works for you?

And try to find a man who has that? Alright, next enlist hardness. So, when people think about erections, they think well, yeah, well, you get an erection. Your penis is hard, but they don’t often necessarily realize that there are many differences between the rigidity of an erection. Now obviously, as men get older, you’re going to see that change a little bit if they’re starting to struggle, you know, with erections, you know, getting them if maybe they have some health issues, and the blood flow isn’t what it used to be, of course, that can affect it.

But even in young, healthy men, you will see variation in how hard a particular penis is, for instance, sometimes men who are really large, like really large horseman, their erections aren’t actually that hard. So the penis is more flexible, it gets really large, but it’s not that hard. Whereas you might see somebody like a dancing man or an elk man or something like that, when he gets an erection. It’s like, like a piece of wood, literally, like it’s rock hard.

So that’s, that’s another thing to consider. What type is yours? Are you the type that gets really, really hard or really, really soft? Or why does that matter? Well, let’s say you’re a larger man, and you don’t get as hard. Well, maybe the way that you penetrate a woman is different. whereas somebody gets really raging hard rock, hard erection, you know, provided there’s enough lubrication, can no hands like just boom and enter no problem. Whereas a man whose penis doesn’t get as hard, might need a different position, might need to even do a soft entry to begin with. So there’s just there’s differences in how you use what you got.

Okay, next is texture. This is an interesting one. This is not something I ever thought of before, but Céline used to talk about it. And, you know, she would say that some guys have kind of a rough texture on their penis, and some guys have very soft and smooth texture. And so it’s just something to be aware of, if you know you tend to have sort of rougher texture on your penis, you might want to look into, are you staying hydrated enough? Do you have too much chafing going on, maybe you don’t have the right underwear, something like that.

Or maybe you need to use some coconut oil on a regular basis to keep the skin soft or whatever. But texture is actually something that I have heard from women is important to them. They really appreciate a good texture. All right, next, and by the way, the things on this list are not in any particular order. Like I’ll tell you usually, if some if the order is important, in this case, it’s not. Next is energy. Okay, in tantric practices, they will often talk about the lingam, which is the term they use for penis, or they’ll call it the wand of light, or the Jade stock, or a lot of these things, but they talk a lot about the energy of the penis, the physical energy that is being projected out of the penis and into the woman.

This is really big. Let’s say you’re a smaller-sized penis, but you know how to move energy. You can make your small penis feel to a woman inside of her that it’s way bigger than it is because of the amount of energy that is being transmitted from you to her. How do you learn how to do that? Well, you know, learn some tantric practices learn to cultivate your energy. Even if you don’t do tantric practices. I mean, things like tai chi or Chi Gong are our systems that really teach you how to cultivate and move energy throughout your body. And then once you learn how to do that, you can move it through any part of your body, you can send it through your hands, you can send it through your penis, but the energy that you project from your penis can make a big, big difference in what she feels on the other end. Next on the list, taste, this is an interesting one too.

Just like not all women taste the same men, you know that. Women you also know that not all men taste the same. And so that is something that you want to think about, right? Because we’re talking about what are your genital types? How do you make the most of it? Well, if you know that your taste is a certain taste, and maybe that’s not the taste your partner likes, right? Then you know, Okay, what else can I do to possibly influence the taste? Because the reality is, and we’ve talked about this soon, and I’ve done videos on, like, you know how to get more blow jobs, right?

Like, we did a YouTube video on that a while back. And one of the things we said is you got to make it appetizing to her appealing to her, like, you know, even if she likes to give blowjobs if you’re not well groomed, if you don’t smell that good, or you don’t taste that good snack gonna be really inspired. But if she goes down on you, and just like, you know, she smells you and just like, she feels it in her pussy when she smells you and that you taste you and you just like the best tasting thing ever. She’s gonna want to do it a lot. So that’s important.

Next on the list, ability and speed of erections. So again, as you get older, maybe your health isn’t all that great, you can start to have challenges. But even when you’re younger, especially nowadays, we see even with young men a huge variation in their ability to obtain an erection, how hard that erection gets and how quickly they can get it. So again, know where you’re at. Are you the type that can instantly get an erection and it’s rock hard or are you the time or you’re the type that needs more time and you more slowly get an erection. It’s actually something I know.

Quodoushka talked about a little bit that some men need more time to achieve interaction than others. So Something to be aware of, again, where we want to identify these things so that we can figure out how to make the best of it, right. So, you know, if you’re a woman, and you know that your man maybe needs a little bit more time, then you know, you need to invest a little bit more in foreplay. So don’t automatically assume he’s not attracted to me, because he doesn’t know maybe his type is he just needs a little bit more time. All right, and the last one on other things to consider your ability to last long slash control your ejaculation.

So this is, this is something any man can have. It’s just a simple matter of training, we teach you how to do this in our sexual mastery course. And in our master ejaculation course, which is at power mastery.com. Any man can learn how to do this. So again, you’re identifying what type? Are you? Are you the type that lasts long and has good control? Or are you the type that has little control? And doesn’t last long, right? Figuring out what is your type? So what is your physical type? And then how do you use it? What is your skill type? Right? All of that stuff. So that is a basic description now.

So men and women, you’ve heard all of this, right? Think about if you’re a guy, think about everything I just said, where do you fit? What is your size? What is your girth? What is your length? What is your shape, right? And then think about? What angle does it point in? How hard does it get? What is the texture, the energy, the taste, the reaction speed, how long think about all those things and form a realistic picture of who you are from a perspective of your genitals and I know you are far more than just your genitals? Don’t I’m not trying to tell you that you’re just your dick, right?

No, absolutely not, but form a picture of who you are through the frame of reference of genitals, because once you understand that, then you can make decisions about how do you use it best, best for you, and best for your partner. Okay, so having said all that, we are going to take a break for our sponsor, and then we’re going to come back and do the same thing for the women and then we’re going to wrap up with how men and women can use their genitals to the best of their ability.

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So interesting thing about the sheep is it tends to have a longer hood over the clitoris that would be something that is important to know, not only from for you as a woman, but as a guy. Because the clitoris needs stimulation, most women will orgasm from the clitoris. So if that is tucked away in there, you might need to coax it out a little bit. Next is the cat pronounced hooding covering the entire clitoris whose shaft is shorter upper part of the outer labia are connected to the hood. So again, for covering of the clitoris might, so you know that you need to do a little bit more exploring to get in there.

And interestingly enough, the way the outer labia are connected to the hood, so that’s just something that’s a little bit unique to the cat. Next is Buffalo large, protruding thick outer lips which curl or hang downwards. So this is a woman who intends to have much thicker and larger so some women will have and we’ll talk about the in this with some of the other types. Some women will have large lips but they’re thin, and other women will have large lips but they’re thick. And we’re going to talk about labia, especially inner labia and their size and how that can affect how you have sex because it can there are a couple of considerations that you definitely want to keep in mind if you happen to have larger lips.

Alright bear thick lips that may take the shape of butterfly wings. Always so beautiful when they have the flower and butterfly kind of labia I think so anyway. Next is Wolf inner labia tend to be shaped like thin butterfly wings, so, larger labia, but thinner labia, and they tend to be not always but tends to be somewhat symmetrical so that they kind of look like they are butterfly wings. Next is the antelope somewhat thin and delicate labia that are spread apart. So sometimes the labia tend to be tightly close together, sometimes a little further apart.

The deer extremely thin and small outer labia but has the deepest inner cave. This is actually an interesting one. The dear so it’s interesting because in modern times what you see in porn movies a lot are women that our dear women so women who have really small inner labia and potentially even outer labia and inner labia. And there was even a trend there for a while of women getting labia plasti where they would have their labia removed or made smaller please please please don’t do that. Don’t do that. It doesn’t matter. Small labia big labia is all beautiful. Just learn to love and use what you have. And that’s a lot of what this episode is about when we’re talking about women.

So, just because you happen to see that doesn’t mean that it’s any better, or any worse. It’s just a different type. Now you might have a personal preference, and that’s fine. If you have a personal preference then find a woman who has genitalia that meet your preference. But otherwise, really. It’s all good. They’re all beautiful. All right. Next is Fox, shorter clitoral hooding and petite labia. And the last one is the dancing woman, which is long, narrow, and Finn, labia. So I was going to put pictures up post production here. But I didn’t want to use I imagine the kudos because stuff is copyrighted. I didn’t want to use their images.

And I also didn’t want to get demonetized or banned on YouTube. People will, you know, we’ll do episodes on like, how to finger a woman like a pro? Or how to give a genital massage or something like that. And inevitably, in the comments, somebody’s like, why did you just talk about it? Why couldn’t you show it to us? Why? Because we’d be banned from YouTube. That’s why you can’t put that kind of content on YouTube. You can put that maybe elsewhere, but you can’t put it on YouTube, right. And the whole point of this is to educate people, we want to share this knowledge, we want to educate people so that they can have better sex and better relationships and more love in their life.

So you can go look it up, you can get the book, it’s in the book. I’m sure you can find it on Amazon. In fact, I believe we have a link to buy this book. If you go to Céline remy.com, forward slash vault I believe it is. It’s in the it’s in the show notes. So you’ll find it there. That’s where you can sign up for our free library of stuff. And in there is a really excellent reading list. I mean, dozens, dozens of fantastic books on sex, love and relationship. And I believe the traditional book is in there with a direct link on where you can go by it. So you can find that you can also find these images elsewhere on the internet, they’re not hard to find. So go look them up.

And don’t complain to me in the comments that I didn’t show a picture of it. The thing is, you never know sometimes like you can, you could show a drawing of it and you’d be perfectly fine and no problems. And then another time, all of a sudden you get demonetized. Right? And you know it cost money to make these shows. So getting demonetized not none. Not good. All right, so let’s talk about what are some of the other types and considerations when it comes to female genitalia. And some of this was already covered in what I read above. But I’m going to talk a little bit more about it from our perspective, not necessarily the investigative perspective.

So size of the inner labia. Why the size of the inner labia and matter? Well, because when you penetrate a woman, if she happens to have larger inner labia, you’re going to have to be a little bit more careful. It’s actually rather painful for women if you just go and jam your penis in there, and her labia gets kind of caught and dragged sort of inside, because it’ll kind of flip around, like and kind of go inward and there’s no lubrication on the external part of it. Right.

So it’s important to be aware what size labia Do you have? And also, are they thin are they thick, and then how we’ll get to that a number three. But yeah, it’s an important thing to know because it just takes a little bit different technique. Once you know what you’re working with. Next size slash covering of the clitoris. This was also mentioned a little bit introduction, but I want to talk about a little bit more. I didn’t bring our little clitoris model we have our little 3d printed clitoris, which I would love to show you right now, but I don’t have it with me it’s in the other room.

I didn’t even think about bringing it on this show. But we did an entire episode by the way Céline And I on the clitoris where we showed the models and everything and went through the whole anatomy. And so if you know about the clitoris, you know, it’s not just that tiny little, you know, man in the boat that you see sticking out that it has legs and they go down along the sides of the outer labia, which is another reason why it’s important to know what kind of outer labia you have. But just understanding the clitoris and what it is, how it’s shaped and how it works can really help you dial in the pleasure bowl For a woman herself, and also for a man. So it’s really important

to understand that so covering of the clitoris is kind of important to, like I said most women do have orgasms from the clitoris. Type orgasms are the most common. And so they can be easier or harder to achieve based on the location of the clitoris, how close is it to the vaginal opening? And then also, how covered is it? Is it completely covered by the hood? Or is it some I’ve seen some that are completely exposed, like the who doesn’t cover it up.

Those are the type of women who are like, I can’t wear I can’t not wear underwear like those women will tell you that they can’t put on a pair of jeans without having a good pair of underwear on because it’ll just rub against their clitoris all day long. And it’ll either irritate them or it’ll give them orgasms all day. So those are just things to keep in mind. Next is amount of lubrication. That is also important. Some women lubricate more than others. And especially as age and hormones shift, those things change. That is something you really need to know about.

Now, think about this, if you have a woman with larger inner labia who doesn’t lubricate that much, you know, you need to take extra special care when you’re penetrating her with anything, whether it’s your penis, your fingers, anything, you need to take a little bit extra special care. And you want to make sure that if she’s not producing a lot of lubrication on her own, that you then use something else to lubricate, really important. And you know, the lubrication issue isn’t just an age issue. I mean, even when younger, some women lubricate more than others, they just do.

I’ve had girlfriends in the past that when they were really turned down, and they were standing there naked, they were dripping, literally dripping. And then others where it takes, you know, 10 minutes or 15 minutes of some sort of foreplay to really get them going. And that’s normal. That’s that’s fine. Depth of vaginal canal. Yeah, there are different depths. So you know, again, if you’re a horse, man, and you’re with a woman who has a shorter depth, vaginal canal, you’re gonna have difficulties there, right? So you want to know these things you want to know? Oh, okay. And you know, this would make I think this would make great conversation, you’re dating somebody, you’re getting to know them, right? Talk about these things like, oh, what kind of, you know, penis Do you have?

Or what’s your veteran? What do you like, right? These are the kinds of conversations that you should have. I mean, one, they’re fun, but two, they help you figure out is this person, somebody that’s going to be compatible with me. Position of the uterus, so that’s slightly different. And that will actually change based on where she’s at in her cycle. But aside from that, it is a little bit different. For different women. Strength of the vaginal muscles, that’s really important, that makes a huge difference. Let’s say you’re a man who has a smaller penis, and she’s a woman who has a larger vaginal canal, she could absolutely make up for that difference.

If she had really strong vaginal muscles, she would be able to really just constrict those muscles. And you’ll feel it and she’ll feel more sensation if she does that, right. So we’ll talk about that when we get to this next section here. And then the last one is location of the G spot, it’s generally in the same place for everybody. But it can be a little bit further back or a little bit closer to the opening, depending on the woman. So you know, even the smallest men can usually be long enough, can almost always be long enough to touch a woman’s juice, but it’s not very far. And it’s like, you know, two knuckles on your finger. And so it’s not very deep.

But, you know, even though you might be long enough, maybe you’re not pointing in the right direction, or the shape of your penis doesn’t quite stimulate enough. So those are things to consider. And, again, I really want to emphasize whether it’s the men or the women, there’s no such thing as good or bad. It’s just different, right? There’s just different shades, different types. And you should just learn how to love and use what you got. And you can you can you can take any genital type of a man or women and make it amazing. Okay, so now we get to the section, how do we make it amazing? How do we take what we have and do the best we can with it.

Okay, so we’re gonna start with the men first. And then we’re going to talk about the women. And by the way, I’m not starting with the men first because of any particular reason I was just, I am a man and so it was really easy for me to sit down and just Okay, here we go and write everything down. And then I had to take a little bit more time to think about the women or women I’ve been with think about all of the things that Céline And I talked about, so that that’s the only reason why it’s in that order. So don’t don’t get to be in your mind.

Let’s because I’m talking about the men first all the time. All right. So if you are a man who’s smaller in size, okay, here’s here are some things that you can do. One you can learn good technique, right? So we’ve done video Céline And I on thrusting techniques and other techniques as well. Just learn how to use your penis really well. A lot of guys don’t, they really don’t know how to do they just like stick it in and pound like Okay, here we go. Does that work for you, honey? And she’s like, No. Right. So just learn how to use what you got, like learn how to use it. Well, you know, it’s, it’s a very important part of your body, master it master it. Power master.com.

Men who tend to be smaller also tends to really get good at using their mouth and their hands. So you can make up a lot of ground either foreplay first, or by finishing her and bringing her to orgasm after penetration with your mouth or your hands. You can also find a woman with a smaller vaginal canal or smaller vagina like we talked about the dancing woman, right? We said it’s really, really tall, thin labia. Well, what that also means is a very tall opening to the vagina. So some women have taller openings. Some women have smaller openings, shorter openings, and some women have deeper vaginal canals and some women are shorter.

So find a woman whose vagina and vulva work for your genital type. Let’s see, oh, you can have you. Another thing that you can do is learn to have good control over your vaginal muscles. So this is something actually for the men. Right? If you and I’ve talked about this before, if you’re a man and you happen to have smaller penis, if a woman has really good strong vaginal muscles that can make up for the lack of size. Also pick positions that allow for the deepest possible penetration. So if you’re a little bit smaller, there are positions you can do that gives you really deep penetration.

Those are the positions that if you’re larger, the women are like, Oh no, we’re not doing that, right, because you end up bottoming out hitting the uterus and it can be uncomfortable sometimes. So but use those positions if you happen to have a smaller penis. If you are a man with a large penis, one use lots of lube, especially if the woman doesn’t happen to have a particularly large vaginal opening or canal penetrates slowly, guys, if you have a big penis, please. I mean, you should always be penetrating a woman slowly even if you have a small penis, but it’s especially important if you have a big penis, penetrate her slowly.

If you happen to be a horseman, and you have a really long penis with a lot of girth, and your woman’s vaginal canal is not that deep or that long or that wide. Then use some tools to help you. We did an entire YouTube video on men, what men with large penises can do or should do to make sex better. Because a lot of times guys that don’t have large penises think Man, I wish I had a penis that big. That would be great. And as I alluded in the beginning of the show, a lot of times women are like, Oh hell no, no, no, you’re not putting that thing inside me.

Right? Like we I’ve had women say that not to me personally, I’m more in that middle range. I’m not a horse, man. I’m actually an Elk man. But I’ve had women tell me that they’ve been with guys. And once they pull down their pants, they were like you can do it, you just have to find ways. So I think it might be in our kevinandceline.com/products on our product page.

We did have for a while an affiliate called Oh nut, I think we still have it, which makes literally it’s a it’s a doughnut and you can stack them and so it can basically shorten the length of your penis so that you can still thrust and do all the things that you would do if you had a shorter penis without hurting her. So that’s another thing you can do if you happen to be unusually large in size. And then pick positions that allow for shallower penetration, there are positions where you can’t penetrate as deeply just due to the way the bodies fit together. So use those if you’re larger.

And of course find a woman with a larger vaginal canal. They’re out there find a woman there are women out there. So you’ve always heard about the size queen, the woman who absolutely just loves big penises. Why does she love big penises? Probably because she’s got a larger vaginal canal and it feels good for her. Whereas women was smaller ones are like it’s a little uncomfortable. We got to use a lot of lube. We need to use a donor and it’s not that great for me. If a woman is like yeah, give me every millimeter you You got, she probably has a larger vaginal canal. And so therefore it feels good for her. So find a woman like that.

A few general things, regardless of what size penis you have, practice good grooming, that is always important. And if you have a really small penis, and you have a giant Bush, it’s gonna make it look even smaller, right guys, right, right. So get yourself a manscaped. Right, trim that up a little bit and make it look a little bigger. Maintain a healthy diet and lifestyle so that you taste good, and that you have no erection difficulties.

That’s really important, really important that that will make Europeans suddenly appear a whole lot more appealing. Learn how to control your ejaculation talked about this couple of times on the show. Also, even if you don’t have the biggest penis, even if you don’t have maybe the best shape for your partner. If you can learn how to use it, well control that ejaculation. Take her on these, these waves of intense pleasure, she’s going to think you are a great lover, regardless of the physical size shape of your penis. Learn how to direct your energy through your penis, we talked about that earlier.

Also, again, that can make up for all sorts of different things size, skill, you know, things that you may be lacking of, if you can really learn to use your energy through your penis, I’m telling you, that makes a big difference. women who’ve never had that. And then they have a lover who really can put the energy in. They’re just like, I don’t know what just happened, but something happened and it was fucking amazing. Like, they will tell you that. Next, try to find a woman whose genitals are most compatible with yours. I mean that that’s, that’s one of the reasons we’re going through this whole episode, right is this so that you can understand that there are different types, and that some types are more compatible with you than others.

And so you can go and look for them. Of course, the other is if you’re already in a committed relationship, identify what type each of you have, and then pick from the list of things that you can do to maximize the compatibility and the pleasure. And lastly, for the men have confidence in your cock, like I work with a lot of men. A lot of guys think they have small penises. And turns out, they’re actually really not that small. They just lack confidence in their penis and their ability to use it. And when you lack confidence, women feel it. They do.

They can just tell. And it’s not sexy to them, and it’s not attractive to them. So if you can really have confidence in your caulk and your ability to use it, no matter what shape it is, no matter what size it is, no matter what, you’re going to do a good job. So you know, that’s one of the things I really like to help guys with is having confidence. Yeah, I’m going to teach them the skills to get there so they can have that confidence, but really helping them like show up like, yeah, I am a cock star. Right? That’s how you got to show up. Okay, and, man, this episode is getting long, too. I thought about breaking this into two episodes, but then I was like, I’m just going to try to give you the full download and one. I know I talk a lot. I apologize for that.

But hopefully you’re getting some good value out of it. Finally, how to make the most of what you got if you are a woman. Number one. If you have larger labia, make sure that you open or move them. Use lube if necessary and penetrate slowly. So we talked about this before, if you have larger labia. That’s great, that’s beautiful. You know, I think they’re beautiful. I love to you know, when a woman spreads her legs and her labia just go like this and open up and they just looked like a beautiful flower or butterfly. I think it’s absolutely gorgeous. So yeah, love your labia and just make sure that they’re open. They’re out of the way. They’re well lubricated, and you penetrate her slowly so they don’t get dragged inside and this weird burning kind of thing.

Next, if you have a larger hood, make sure to really arouse the clitoris so that it will emerge from under its hood. Or maybe gently pull back on the hood to expose it when you stimulate it. So these are some things to think about and you know, follow her lead. She’ll let you know if that feels good or not. And as a woman know that, hey, if you’re having penetrative sex, and you don’t feel a lot of stimulation through your clitoris, it could be because your clitoris is a little bit higher and further away from the vaginal canal.

And it could be that you’ve got a hood that covers it a lot and it’s just not getting that much stimulation. So try a different position that will stimulate it more. Try using your hands while he’s penetrating you or vibrator or there’s lots of different things you can do to Get that clitoris in the game. All right. Next, if you don’t lubricate quickly or fully make sure that you use lube. I mean, that’s an easy one, just use some lube. I think every bedroom or if you’re lucky enough to have a sex room in your house or something like that should have some lube handy, because sometimes you just need lube.

Next is train those vaginal muscles. Yes, ladies, please, please, please, please, not just for him. But for you, you will experience greater levels of satisfaction in your sex life, if you have trained those muscles, the vaginal muscles, the pelvic floor muscles. If you can really strengthen and tone those muscles, you will feel so much more sensation, you have so much more control over your own genitals and how you experience lovemaking. I cannot stress that enough. A lot of times women will say well, after childbirth, I have incontinence.

And if I laugh too hard, I pee on myself. And that’s just the way it is no, it’s not just the way it is. Unless there was permanent damage done, which there most likely wasn’t you can train those muscles. And if Céline were here, not only would she tell you how she would teach you how she would but it can absolutely be done. Just like with men how they can use their penis to put energy in women can fill their vagina with energy to be careful with this one though, if you have a guy who has a premature ejaculator because you can get so much energy in your vagina that you can literally with no movement just make him explode. So be careful with that.

But in the right circumstance, it can really enhance the quality of lovemaking. Next, choose positions that give you just the right angle of depth and penetration, right. Same thing for the guy, right? So but in this case, for the guy we’re saying, Hey, if you have a short penis choose when the last deeper penetration, we have a long penis choose one that allows a shallower penetration in this case, just know what are the spots and the angles and the directions in the depths that feel good to you. And then knowing what size and what angle your partner is, you can choose positions and say Okay, so my, my G Spot is located really close to the vaginal opening.

And he happens to be a dear man, which is a really long penis. And what I would really like is a position where the head of his penis rubs right against the g spot right? Pick a position that does that. So that would most likely be one that allowed for shallower penetration where the head of his penis could stimulate the g spot a bit more so. And that’s just one example. You can think of lots of them for smaller penises and different vaginas and all of that. And of course, try to find a partner whose genitals are most compatible with yours.

Yeah, I mean, if you’ve been around long enough, you’ll know what you like. And so you can seek that out. If you haven’t, you’re gonna have to experiment a little bit. You know, and find out what you like. Next is learn your pussy inside and out.  I had to put this on here for women because guys, we know our penises inside and out. We’re playing with them from the time that we’re like, teeny tiny, right? We know what they look like from every direction, everything about them.

But one of the things that Céline noticed with working with women for many years is a lot of women don’t know their vaginas very well. They’ve never seen them, they don’t look at them. They don’t really know how they function. They don’t even know what their clitoris, how it has legs and all that kind of stuff. If you really want to have great sex, you need to understand your own anatomy you just do. And then of course, for men, you need to understand the anatomy so you know how to how to please her? Well, it’s a big module that I teach men in my coaching. And that’s thing we also teach women there’s a whole module on female anatomy because it’s important to know. So and then

the last one is, no matter what type of genitals you have, ladies, learn to love it. Love your vulva, love your labia. Love your clitoris, love your policy, your vagina, all the different parts that make it up, learn to love it. They’re all amazing. And you just need to know how to work best with what you have. And it helps if you can find a partner that works and fits and is compatible with Yoo hoo All right, there you go. That is an entire episode on genital types.

I hope that was helpful for you. And honestly, all of this information when I learned it many many years ago really did help me choose better partners helped me understand what my partner was going through helped me understand how to please them better and have better sexual encounters and relationships. So Hopefully it will do the same for you. Let me know in the comments, what your experiences are and if you have anything to add to this conversation. All right, everybody, that’s all I have for you this week and I will see you next week.

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